Fear Can Wreck Ya 

I believe it’s imbedded in our culture to do better, to be better, to be the best. 
I’m scared that I won’t make the cut. I could list for you my collection of failures and then tell you some mumbo jumbo about them being life lessons, but that’s not where I’m going with this.

Lessons from some of my failures birthed fear, and when faced with daily tasks like parenting, running a business, or even being a productive family member, I find that fear has me questioning myself about my choices. 

When faced with a new challenge I tend to air on the side of caution, bet ya didn’t know that about me. When fear sets in and the recording goes off in my head “do you really have what it takes to execute this?” It’s this recording that sends me into a tail spin. 

Dear fear please get out of my head. You are making life difficult. 

To rid my mind of it’s endless banter and quite the fear takes work. Being in the moment, mindful of how I’m feeling and how I’m addressing my emotions can be exhausting. Catching myself before the banter turns to worry, then to fear has been a priceless life skill. I hope to carry the skill with me always. 

Quiet my mind so I can be present and at peace. I may never fully master this skill,  but my awareness of it has given me back hours during my day. 

One thought on “Fear Can Wreck Ya 

  1. DAC says:

    Thank you for this beautiful post .. it helps us too.. you know the friends that are just like you.. trying to get through, trying to be mindful.. trying not to let fear stand in the way.. your words as always resonate and give hope.. it’s nice to know none of us are in this boat alone. You are appreciated and loved. The most beautiful thing about you is you. Your writing is a gift and your words are an extension of all the joys and pains and laughter and love that belongs to only you. Just beautiful..

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